Questioner: If I have put in effort to make the other
person understand, then is it the other person’s effort
whether to understand or not?
Dadashri: Your responsibility is simply to explain it to him. Thereafter, if he still does not understand, then there is no solution. Then all you need to say is, “Oh Dada Bhagwan! Grant him right intellect!” You have to say at least this much. You cannot leave him in limbo. This is not baseless. This is Dada’s Science of adjustment. It is a wondrous adjustment! And when you do not adjust, surely you must taste the effect? This dis-adjustment is itself foolishness. This is because he does not want to relinquish his authority as a husband, and he wants to keep his authoritative control. So, he will stay hungry his entire life, and then one day he will end up with poison in his plate! Just let things continue the way they are naturally! This is Kaliyug! Just look at the environment! Therefore, when the wife says, “You are worthless,” then you should reply, “Very well.”
Dadashri: Your responsibility is simply to explain it to him. Thereafter, if he still does not understand, then there is no solution. Then all you need to say is, “Oh Dada Bhagwan! Grant him right intellect!” You have to say at least this much. You cannot leave him in limbo. This is not baseless. This is Dada’s Science of adjustment. It is a wondrous adjustment! And when you do not adjust, surely you must taste the effect? This dis-adjustment is itself foolishness. This is because he does not want to relinquish his authority as a husband, and he wants to keep his authoritative control. So, he will stay hungry his entire life, and then one day he will end up with poison in his plate! Just let things continue the way they are naturally! This is Kaliyug! Just look at the environment! Therefore, when the wife says, “You are worthless,” then you should reply, “Very well.”
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