Adjustment With Disagreeable People

The bog of gutters near Bandra Station [in Mumbai] smells foul, but does that mean you should scold it? In the same way, these people ‘smell foul’, so can you tell them anything? Everything that smells foul is considered a creek, and that which gives off fragrance is considered a garden. Everything that smells foul says, ‘Remain vitaraag with us!’ It is because of labeling things as good or bad that they [the opinions] harass you. You have to make both of them equal. When you refer to this as ‘good’, the other [automatically] becomes bad, and that is why it harasses you. But if you mix both together, then the effect no longer  remains. ‘Adjust everywhere,’ is something ‘we’ have discovered. Adjust with the one who is speaking truthfully, as well as with the one who is telling a lie. If someone were to say to ‘us’, “You have no sense,” then I would immediately adjust and tell him, “I never had any to begin with! Why have you come looking for it now? You just happened to discover this today, whereas I have known this since childhood.” If you say this, then the problem ends, doesn’t it? Thereafter he will certainly not come to you looking for sense. If you do not do this, then when will you reach ‘your home’ [liberation]?


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